Be Kind To Yourself

Don’t let other people opinions be of so much importance

People may know your name, but not your whole story.  They’ve heard what you’ve done, but only you know what you’ve been through and how that affected you.  So take their opinions of you with a grain of salt.

What you think about yourself counts, so have an opinion about who you are, don’t leave others to make that decision.  Life works more easily when you begin with what’s best for you and your life, not what’s best for everyone else.

Change your language 

You will “fail” sometimes, and that’s okay.  Or you can just see “failures” as choices that didn’t work out quite as well as you’d hoped. Your past does not determine your future unless you believe it does.  Just because things didn’t go your way yesterday; or all day today; or a moment ago; or for the last six months; or for the last sixteen years, doesn’t need to have any impact on what you choose to believe now.

Being indecisive about what you want.

You will never leave where you are until you decide where you would rather be.

It’s all about finding and pursuing your passion.  Neglecting passion blocks creative flow.

When you’re passionate, you’re energized.  Likewise, when you lack passion, your energy is low and unproductive.  Energy is everything when it comes to being successful.  Make a decision to figure out what you want, and then pursue it passionately.

Procrastinating on the goals that matter to you.

There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them.  Don’t give up trying to do what you really want to do.  Find the pleasure in chasing your dreams, you can’t go wrong.  And whatever it is you want to do, do it now.  Don’t let yourself be saying next year “I wish….”

Choosing to do nothing.

You can only decide how you are going to live, right now.  Every day is a new chance to choose.  Choose to change your perspective.  Choose to flip the switch in your mind from negative to positive.  Choose to turn on the light and stop fretting about with insecurity and doubt.  Choose to do work that you are proud of.  Choose to see the best in others, and to show your best to others.  Choose to truly LIVE, right now.

Address problems and issues and challenges now

We make life harder than it has to be.  The difficulties started when… conversations became texting, feelings became subliminal, sex became a game, the word ‘love’ fell out of context, trust faded as honesty waned, insecurities became a way of living, jealously became a habit, being hurt started to feel natural, and running away from it all became our solution.  Stop running!  Face these issues, communicate, appreciate, forgive and LOVE the people in your life who deserve it.

Making excuses rather than decisions.

Life is a continuous exercise in creative problem solving.  A mistake doesn’t become a failure until you refuse to correct it. Thus, most long-term failures are the outcome of people who make excuses instead of decisions

Not appreciating the present moment.

We do not remember days, we remember moments.  Too often we try to accomplish something big without realizing that the greatest part of life is made up of the little things.  Live authentically and cherish each precious moment of your journey.  Because when you finally arrive at your desired destination, I guarantee you, another journey will begin.

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