Replace Self-Defeat with Self-Love
“To fall in love with yourself is the first secret to happiness.” – Robert Morely
Honoring yourself means you protect yourself, you trust yourself, you take care of yourself. And you do things in a way that support and strengthen that desire to feel good. When you stand firm in a new story of loving yourself, and you share your story in an empowering way, your story will heal you, and your story will heal the people you come into contact with.
1. Measure your own worth, don’t allow others to measure it for you.
Its so easy to make everyone else happy before considering your own needs. Start seeing what makes you come alive and do more of that. What matters is having determination, an honest heart, and a willingness to honor your needs.
2. People who want to know and love you, want you to be yourself
Notice the relationships in your life that make you a better person without changing you into someone other than yourself. Who in your life accepts your “wonderfulness” just the way you are. Each day simply decide to be better than the person you were yesterday. The right people will love you more for doing so, and they will appreciate all the things about you that the WRONG people are intimidated by.
3. Let go of the need to please others.
Make pleasing yourself become your priority. There will always be people who want to tell you where you’re going wrong. You know the ones I mean, and you probably don’t like them much anyway. So why waste energy on pleasing them Spend your time with those who accept you, just as you are. The ones who support you, make you laugh and are there for you when you need.
4. Be true to yourself
Walk your path confidently and don’t expect others to understand your journey. Stop explaining yourself except to those who are genuinely interested in seeing your success. Live your life on your terms, and let others live their lives as they choose. Speak up for yourself, be gentle and firm even if your voice shakes. By being true to yourself, you put something breathtaking into the world that was not there before.
5. Your life is your own business.
Don’t let other people choose, how you live it. Because In your Passion and Strength you are STUNNING.
You SHINE when you are being real and give others permission to do the same. Don’t let your mistakes weaken you. Fall down, pick yourself up and move forwards. Let new opportunities of choice build your confidence What you’re capable of choosing, and achieving depends on how you choose to spend your time and energy.
I wish you joy on your journey I wish you deeper attention Stronger intention And the time and space to create new and more joyful moments in your life Namaste Lucinda 
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